1. Unfortunately the single most important thing is often surprisingly overlooked – marry the right person. Many unhappy couples report seeing red flags before walking down the aisle, but they walked down it anyway. If you saw things that concerned you before you got married chances are considerably high that they won’t change just because you are […]
The Lost Art of Yelling at Your Husband
Happy marriages are made up of happy, good-humored arguers. An arguer who can meet his wife’s chastising of “why on earth can’t you ever put the toilet seat down?!” with a guilty grin…or better yet an offer of a cookie and a hot cup of tea (you might try to stay mad at your husband […]
Bored In Your Marriage? Welcome To The Club.
Feeling somewhat bored in your marriage? Join the club. One of the most common complaints I hear from couples is that they are bored in their relationship. I hear boredom blamed for everything from infidelity to substance abuse. It can cause couples to start questioning their choice of a spouse and start fantasizing about […]
Affairs Happen In Good Marriages Too
Having a good marriage doesn’t necessarily protect you from infidelity. Good people in good marriages do have affairs. It’s a difficult concept for couples to wrap their heads around. If their marriage wasn’t a bad one how could this have happened? Does it mean that the relationship only appeared to be good but really […]